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Taking it back….

18 May

The archives remember kings
because kings built the archives

our names survived in fragments
stitched into the hems of uniforms
pressed into recipe books
buried inside letters no historian thought to unfold carefully

they called us muses
wives
witches
madwomen
assistants

anything but architects

for centuries they edited us down
cut us from photographs
quoted our work without saying our names
turned our bodies into evidence
our anger into diagnosis
our exhaustion into character flaws

they built entire institutions
out of the belief
that we would stay grateful for the corners

but something is changing now

you can feel it in the classrooms
in the courtrooms
in group chats that turn into movements before dawn
in daughters who no longer apologise before speaking
in women comparing notes
and suddenly realising the pain was never personal

we are recovering each other
like lost cities beneath water

there is fury in it
but also tenderness

the kind born when someone says
I thought I was alone in this

and another voice answers
you were never alone
they just worked very hard to keep us separate

now the old language is cracking

the words that kept us small
hysterical
difficult
too emotional
too ambitious
too loud

they no longer fit properly

we are outgrowing them

there are women alive right now
learning to take up space without apology
without shrinking their brilliance
without softening their edges into something more acceptable

women rebuilding themselves from the historical record outward

women who understand that survival was never the final goal

we did not endure centuries merely to remain decorative

we are returning to ourselves

not quietly
not perfectly
not all at once

but together

and that changes everything

JH

 
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8 responses to “Taking it back….

  1. Kiki Larson's avatar

    Kiki Larson

    May 29, 2026 at 7:36 am

    This is so very ture..we have been sidelined for too long now…

    in the words of Aretha..”we’re coming out of the kitchen baby”

     
    • Julan62's avatar

      Julan62

      May 29, 2026 at 7:40 am

      Very much so! “Sisters are doing it for them selves” brilliant song actually.

       
  2. Dr Janet Forsyth's avatar

    Dr Janet Forsyth

    May 29, 2026 at 7:49 am

    Its time ladies..ITS time!!!!!

     
  3. Mel's avatar

    Mel

    May 29, 2026 at 8:29 am

    Men will hang onto their tiny willies and scream at us for even thinking of such a thing lol

     
    • Julan62's avatar

      Julan62

      May 29, 2026 at 8:48 am

      LOL that made me spit my coffee out!

       
    • Fran's avatar

      Fran

      May 29, 2026 at 4:21 pm

      OMG that’s hilarious šŸ˜‚ 😃

       
  4. Fran's avatar

    Fran

    May 29, 2026 at 4:16 pm

    it’s not a man’s world any longer…

     

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