The archives remember kings
because kings built the archives
our names survived in fragments
stitched into the hems of uniforms
pressed into recipe books
buried inside letters no historian thought to unfold carefully
they called us muses
wives
witches
madwomen
assistants
anything but architects
for centuries they edited us down
cut us from photographs
quoted our work without saying our names
turned our bodies into evidence
our anger into diagnosis
our exhaustion into character flaws
they built entire institutions
out of the belief
that we would stay grateful for the corners
but something is changing now
you can feel it in the classrooms
in the courtrooms
in group chats that turn into movements before dawn
in daughters who no longer apologise before speaking
in women comparing notes
and suddenly realising the pain was never personal
we are recovering each other
like lost cities beneath water
there is fury in it
but also tenderness
the kind born when someone says
I thought I was alone in this
and another voice answers
you were never alone
they just worked very hard to keep us separate
now the old language is cracking
the words that kept us small
hysterical
difficult
too emotional
too ambitious
too loud
they no longer fit properly
we are outgrowing them
there are women alive right now
learning to take up space without apology
without shrinking their brilliance
without softening their edges into something more acceptable
women rebuilding themselves from the historical record outward
women who understand that survival was never the final goal
we did not endure centuries merely to remain decorative
we are returning to ourselves
not quietly
not perfectly
not all at once
but together
and that changes everything
JH
Kiki Larson
May 29, 2026 at 7:36 am
This is so very ture..we have been sidelined for too long now…
in the words of Aretha..”we’re coming out of the kitchen baby”
Julan62
May 29, 2026 at 7:40 am
Very much so! “Sisters are doing it for them selves” brilliant song actually.
Dr Janet Forsyth
May 29, 2026 at 7:49 am
Its time ladies..ITS time!!!!!
Julan62
May 29, 2026 at 7:50 am
It is indeed!
Mel
May 29, 2026 at 8:29 am
Men will hang onto their tiny willies and scream at us for even thinking of such a thing lol
Julan62
May 29, 2026 at 8:48 am
LOL that made me spit my coffee out!
Fran
May 29, 2026 at 4:21 pm
OMG that’s hilarious š š
Fran
May 29, 2026 at 4:16 pm
it’s not a man’s world any longer…